Time. Give your child YOUR time. Your gaming, your tv, your sports, etc are NOTHING compared to this child and this child’s NEED for your one on one time. Listen. Play. Everyday make sure your child knows you love them through the undivided time you give them. Make your child a priority OVER your other pursuits during your free time. Find ways to include them. On a death bed you will never hear a father say he wished he would have spent LESS time with his kids.
Susannesays
Patience…you will need it!
venussays
Go with you instincts!
amysays
dont sweat the small stuff
juliesays
don’t blink. time goes by way too fast, so cherish every moment.
Caseysays
Write down all the funny things your kids do/day because it will be so hard to remember that stuff later.
Heathersays
Taking care of a baby is lots of work, so don’t fret about undone laundry or the like. Give a helping hand…and let the wife take a nap every now and again.
Gussays
Listen and learn from them!
Charlenesays
Do not pick up the baby every
time they cry.If it is fed and
dry,the baby is probaly ok.
They just want to be held
Buddysays
Give your wife and the mother of your child all the love, support and help you can.
Donnasays
Love your wife.
Lilysays
I think is the best advice to give a new dad is to listen to your instincts.
Jimsays
Have fun! Take it easy and enjoy the new addition!
Mikesays
i want to win
kellysays
There is no such thing as a perfect dad, just the best dad that you can be. Enjoy every minute!
Meredithsays
Do half of the work in caring for the child. You will be happy you did.
Jonsays
spend as much time as possible with them
Denysesays
Help your wife out and in the same time, become a hands on part of your child’s life!
Davesays
Savor every moment.
donnasays
one day at a time and take what it gives you
Sonyasays
best think a dad can do is just be there when hes needed. Always there to lend a hand or ear.
Karisays
take extra special care of YOUR WIFE. She’ll need it 🙂
Michaelsays
When making any decision about your life always think about what’s best for your child. It’s amazing what seemingly unrelated decisions will impact the child’s life. Always keep the child’s best interests in mind.
Kensays
You’ve gained a new friend and endowment. Please accept my entry. Thank you.
Johnsays
pick me ~ would love to win.
Sherrisays
My best advice to new dads is to be involved. While the mom may carry the baby in her body, the dad should start carrying it in his heart from the start.
michellesays
I’d advise patience with your kids and ejoy every day wih them they grow up so fast. thanks
Sharonsays
treasure your wife
Catherinesays
the best advice is that you don’t have to be perfect but you do have to be there.
Stevesays
Do not be afraid to be a part of your childs life.
Delilahsays
The best advice I have for a new dad….is to be involved in your child’s life!
Stevesays
Spend quality one on one time with each of your children.
bobsays
Show your emotions and teach your child it’s healthy to do the same.
Jaysays
Remain calm!
Sandysays
Lots of one-on-one right from the start!
Jodenesays
Enjoy them, before you know it they will be talking back!
Brendasays
Be patient and listen, best years of your life, thanks for the giveaway
Jacobsays
Patience. You are going to screw up sometimes. Work through it. It will be ok
Kayceesays
Little boys can play with dolls too. 🙂
Theresasays
roll with the punches
Carolsays
give the new mom a break and start bonding with your new child as early as possible
Jennifersays
Be patient
Cherylsays
Probably to remember that time spent with a child is invaluable. Don’t get all wrapped up in your career.
Cherylsays
Probably to remember that time spent with a child is invaluable. Don’t get all wrapped up in your career.
Cherylsays
Probably to remember that time spent with a child is invaluable. Don’t get all wrapped up in your career.
Lucysays
Love the mom . Love begets love.
Kellysays
Don’t try to be super dad
Thanks
Jerrysays
Best advice for a new dad?
Mom is tired, give her time. Remember you will be with them for years, some things can wait and in those passing years she will remember your patience and thank you for it.
Tiffanysays
Don’t sweat the small stuff and enjoy every minute!
Vickisays
Be patient, relax and enjoy your children they do grow up so fast
Davidsays
Remember to get your rest! All the comments go to mom and we sometimes feel left out. Don’t let this bother you. Just grin and feel great. But, get your rest so that you can help when needed. Enjoy them now because they grow up so fast. I have 4!!
Charlenesays
Have patience, & most of all listen to them.
Gerisays
Remember that they are only young once…so don’t let that time slip away…they grow up faster then you think…
Donsays
Advice: Enjoy it all…they grow very fast. Get on the floor and play..just let them always know that they can count on dad.
Tammysays
Jealousy is normal, even ok… dont worry, your still loved!
Dont be afraid to get grandma to babysit and get some ALONE time!
gregsays
Steal time sleep and kisses when you can
Garysays
You have a family now, so always be true to yourself and especially to your wife….
Ermasays
Be patient and get lots of sleep. Thanks for the chance to win.
Bobsays
Have patience and don’t just hear…..listen.
Cherylsays
Remember that your time spent with your child is the best gift you can ever give him.
Samanthasays
The best advice would be to split up diaper duties to relieve stress from the mom.
Alansays
Put the child up for adoption.
Edsays
Listen and love!
Kimsays
Listen to what your kids have to say, especially when they’re young. They will feel special.
Aldosays
Don’t do Drugs.
patricksays
Don’t get frustrated and enjoy
christophersays
enjoy every minute
Alethasays
My hubby says, “don’t get so caught up in the kid that you forget about your wife.” I almost fell off my chair when he said this. Thanks for the giveaway.
Chrysasays
Learn patience and RELAX!
Debrasays
Let you wife sleep in whenever possible! Thanks for the great giveaway.
Janetsays
Make sure that you make time for your wife and ask her how she feels, and most importantly listen.
deidrasays
try not to sweat the small stuff, time passes so quickly, enjoy them when they’re small because they’re babies only once!!
Jillsays
Time and Patience are two of the most important things that you can give to your child.
Thank you so much for offering this wonderful giveaway.
Debbiesays
Do your share! Don’t leave everything up to your wife
Barbarasays
Get involved with the day to day care of your baby, even if the mom acts like you’re not doing it right. Relax and don’t forget to compliment your baby’s mom on how she’s doing.
Tamarasays
Always remember that if things don’t work out with your spouse, your children are still your children and you need to continue to be a part of thier life.
Marthasays
Have patience
williamsays
always be there for them
Angiesays
Always try to be your child’s #1 Fan!
Leighsays
BE the example you want for your child.
Juliesays
Spend lots of time with your children!
kathleensays
Just relax. Have fun with your new baby. Give him/her lots of love.
vanessasays
Help your mate! You got into your situation together so you should see your way through it together. She will love you more than ever!
Samanthasays
try not to freak out, you’ll do plenty of that when they’re teenagers!
Debsays
Talk to your baby. They may not understand everything you say, but they love the sound of your voice.
Kathleensays
Have lots of patience and help buy spending quality time with your child.
kathysays
give your child lots of hugs and kisses
Geoffsays
Don’t be afraid to show your emotions or to express yourself, even when you risk letting your guard down! Your kids will benefit greatly from your emotional honesty and openness, and they will be more likely to confide in you and turn to you for support.
terisays
Stick with 1 kid!
Jasonsays
Thank You.
Tarahsays
Don’t wait for your wife to ask for help, just offer it at any and all times.
johnsays
Be prepared for the expected and unexpected at all times.
Sheilasays
Have lots and lots of patience, its always gets better! And poop happens, be prepared!
MIKEsays
BE SMART ENOUGH TO KNOW YOU DON’T KNOW EVERYTHING ABOUT BEING A GOOD DAD, AND DON’T BE AFRAID TO ASK FOR HELP
Francessays
to be patient with the children
Jacksays
Recognize that nobody is perfect, but if you do the best you can, things willmprobably work out ok.
Terrisays
Spend time with your child! This will allow you to bond with your child and will give your spouse/partner a break as well.
Talithasays
Give your wife at least an hour or two a day of totally baby free time. It will make her happy and give you a chance to bond with your baby.
Shaniasays
You’ll make mistakes, everyone does, but the important thing is to be there and to try your best.
Robertsays
Know who you are before trying to help them find out who they are, so you don’t try to make them who they “should be”… then… patience…. patience… patience…
Jamessays
LISTEN!
Starrsays
hope to win
Starrsays
hope to win
Kathysays
Take time to get to know your new tax deduction.
Carlasays
Spend every moment with your child work can’t be first!
Carla
cpullum(at)yahoo(dot)com
Christinasays
My best advice for a new dad is to put your wife and children first.
susansays
help not only during the day but at night- share the load
JAMESsays
DON’T START AN AFFAIR WITH THE BABYSITTER:)
MAsays
Relax and enjoy!
Beverleysays
Look your child in the eyes, and listen, really listen.
Randallsays
Show them they are the most important thing on earth. Show your child how much you love them daily. Strongly rule with a gentle hand. Always take time out to recognize the smallest accomplishment. Kiss your kids and hug them often. Tell your kids you are sorry if you make a mistake, let them know you are not perfect, but you are trying your best. Listen to what they have to say, sometimes they have an untainted outlook on things, you might learn something from them. Plan on playing hookie from other obligations on occassion and make the day all about your child. Let it be their special day. Don’t wait for a special occassion for a gift, just do it out of the blue, because they exist and they are yours. Read to your kids and teach them to budget and save. So emotion in front of your kids, I never knew men were allowed to cry. This isn’t weakness it is human. Brag on your kids, they are the legacy you will leave behind, show them how proud you are. Teach them right from wrong but on try to rule them, let them make some of their own decissions, when it comes down to the wire most will follow their heart and choose the right path. Don’t show disappointment, quickest way to break a spirit. Never lie to your kids, it is next to impossible to rebuild lost trust.
Angelsays
Be understanding and lend a helping hand even though you are not sure how to do it.
teresasays
to be patient with the children and mostly yourself
teresasays
to be patient with the children and mostly yourself
Kirstensays
Jump right in and don’t be offended if your wife doesn’t think you dressed your child right or did this differently. That happens all the time. Change the diapers, dress them, feed them, bond with them. You are as important as mommy is.
Melissasays
Don’t be afraid to hold the baby and your wife. They both need it!
Ricksays
Don’t worry, in a couple years it’ll get a little bit easier wait for 5th yr they say some funny things ;D
Sarahsays
spend as much time with your child as you can, it’s the best gift you could give them!
lelonisays
Listen!!
Cathiesays
I agree with everything Randall said but would add Be prepaired to say no to them sometimes, even though you know , for a bit at least, they will hate you for it
Victorsays
When you are watching your child it is not considered “babysitting.” Also give your wife atleast a half hour break everyday… she deserves it and will reward you for it…
Jasonsays
Lay off the booze when you are with the kids
JAMESsays
LEARN TO GET BY ON VERY LITTLE SLEEP
MICHAELsays
Get your wife out of the house. Take her to dinner and a movie that she wants to see.
PATRICsays
Learn how to change diapers. And change them once in a while. Every day would be good.
Cynthiasays
Starting from day one, reserve a portion of your day to spend exclusively with your child.
Margaretsays
To have patience and remember the baby won’t break. Help out the new mom as much as possible too.
Andrewsays
Enjoy it, it goes by fast.
Robertsays
Enjoy every minute, because they grow up very fast.
Tesasays
Wash the dishes and do the laundry unexpectedly. It makes a wonderful gift!
Zolysays
Spend time at home with your family and get to know them. You will be with them a lot longer than your buddies and acquaintances.
Barbarasays
support your wife.Don’t be jealous. give that baby lots of kisses.
veronicasays
Have fun. don’t be afraid.
Karensays
Get involved!
Susansays
Give your wife some alone time.
Angelasays
Just be involved in raising the child and help out as much as you can.
Vickysays
be patient.
Sandysays
Be patient. Try to help mom as much as possible and be involved. Spend qaulity alone time with your family and really get to know them and all their quirks so you aren’t having to rely on others to tell you what is needed.
russellsays
Learn to take it easy. Don’t sweat the small stuff.
Carolsays
Not only learn to get by on little sleep, but remember that mom has probably had even less than you!
Tammy says
Pray for your children.
Julianne says
Time. Give your child YOUR time. Your gaming, your tv, your sports, etc are NOTHING compared to this child and this child’s NEED for your one on one time. Listen. Play. Everyday make sure your child knows you love them through the undivided time you give them. Make your child a priority OVER your other pursuits during your free time. Find ways to include them. On a death bed you will never hear a father say he wished he would have spent LESS time with his kids.
Susanne says
Patience…you will need it!
venus says
Go with you instincts!
amy says
dont sweat the small stuff
julie says
don’t blink. time goes by way too fast, so cherish every moment.
Casey says
Write down all the funny things your kids do/day because it will be so hard to remember that stuff later.
Heather says
Taking care of a baby is lots of work, so don’t fret about undone laundry or the like. Give a helping hand…and let the wife take a nap every now and again.
Gus says
Listen and learn from them!
Charlene says
Do not pick up the baby every
time they cry.If it is fed and
dry,the baby is probaly ok.
They just want to be held
Buddy says
Give your wife and the mother of your child all the love, support and help you can.
Donna says
Love your wife.
Lily says
I think is the best advice to give a new dad is to listen to your instincts.
Jim says
Have fun! Take it easy and enjoy the new addition!
Mike says
i want to win
kelly says
There is no such thing as a perfect dad, just the best dad that you can be. Enjoy every minute!
Meredith says
Do half of the work in caring for the child. You will be happy you did.
Jon says
spend as much time as possible with them
Denyse says
Help your wife out and in the same time, become a hands on part of your child’s life!
Dave says
Savor every moment.
donna says
one day at a time and take what it gives you
Sonya says
best think a dad can do is just be there when hes needed. Always there to lend a hand or ear.
Kari says
take extra special care of YOUR WIFE. She’ll need it 🙂
Michael says
When making any decision about your life always think about what’s best for your child. It’s amazing what seemingly unrelated decisions will impact the child’s life. Always keep the child’s best interests in mind.
Ken says
You’ve gained a new friend and endowment. Please accept my entry. Thank you.
John says
pick me ~ would love to win.
Sherri says
My best advice to new dads is to be involved. While the mom may carry the baby in her body, the dad should start carrying it in his heart from the start.
michelle says
I’d advise patience with your kids and ejoy every day wih them they grow up so fast. thanks
Sharon says
treasure your wife
Catherine says
the best advice is that you don’t have to be perfect but you do have to be there.
Steve says
Do not be afraid to be a part of your childs life.
Delilah says
The best advice I have for a new dad….is to be involved in your child’s life!
Steve says
Spend quality one on one time with each of your children.
bob says
Show your emotions and teach your child it’s healthy to do the same.
Jay says
Remain calm!
Sandy says
Lots of one-on-one right from the start!
Jodene says
Enjoy them, before you know it they will be talking back!
Brenda says
Be patient and listen, best years of your life, thanks for the giveaway
Jacob says
Patience. You are going to screw up sometimes. Work through it. It will be ok
Kaycee says
Little boys can play with dolls too. 🙂
Theresa says
roll with the punches
Carol says
give the new mom a break and start bonding with your new child as early as possible
Jennifer says
Be patient
Cheryl says
Probably to remember that time spent with a child is invaluable. Don’t get all wrapped up in your career.
Cheryl says
Probably to remember that time spent with a child is invaluable. Don’t get all wrapped up in your career.
Cheryl says
Probably to remember that time spent with a child is invaluable. Don’t get all wrapped up in your career.
Lucy says
Love the mom . Love begets love.
Kelly says
Don’t try to be super dad
Thanks
Jerry says
Best advice for a new dad?
Mom is tired, give her time. Remember you will be with them for years, some things can wait and in those passing years she will remember your patience and thank you for it.
Tiffany says
Don’t sweat the small stuff and enjoy every minute!
Vicki says
Be patient, relax and enjoy your children they do grow up so fast
David says
Remember to get your rest! All the comments go to mom and we sometimes feel left out. Don’t let this bother you. Just grin and feel great. But, get your rest so that you can help when needed. Enjoy them now because they grow up so fast. I have 4!!
Charlene says
Have patience, & most of all listen to them.
Geri says
Remember that they are only young once…so don’t let that time slip away…they grow up faster then you think…
Don says
Advice: Enjoy it all…they grow very fast. Get on the floor and play..just let them always know that they can count on dad.
Tammy says
Jealousy is normal, even ok… dont worry, your still loved!
Dont be afraid to get grandma to babysit and get some ALONE time!
greg says
Steal time sleep and kisses when you can
Gary says
You have a family now, so always be true to yourself and especially to your wife….
Erma says
Be patient and get lots of sleep. Thanks for the chance to win.
Bob says
Have patience and don’t just hear…..listen.
Cheryl says
Remember that your time spent with your child is the best gift you can ever give him.
Samantha says
The best advice would be to split up diaper duties to relieve stress from the mom.
Alan says
Put the child up for adoption.
Ed says
Listen and love!
Kim says
Listen to what your kids have to say, especially when they’re young. They will feel special.
Aldo says
Don’t do Drugs.
patrick says
Don’t get frustrated and enjoy
christopher says
enjoy every minute
Aletha says
My hubby says, “don’t get so caught up in the kid that you forget about your wife.” I almost fell off my chair when he said this. Thanks for the giveaway.
Chrysa says
Learn patience and RELAX!
Debra says
Let you wife sleep in whenever possible! Thanks for the great giveaway.
Janet says
Make sure that you make time for your wife and ask her how she feels, and most importantly listen.
deidra says
try not to sweat the small stuff, time passes so quickly, enjoy them when they’re small because they’re babies only once!!
Jill says
Time and Patience are two of the most important things that you can give to your child.
Thank you so much for offering this wonderful giveaway.
Debbie says
Do your share! Don’t leave everything up to your wife
Barbara says
Get involved with the day to day care of your baby, even if the mom acts like you’re not doing it right. Relax and don’t forget to compliment your baby’s mom on how she’s doing.
Tamara says
Always remember that if things don’t work out with your spouse, your children are still your children and you need to continue to be a part of thier life.
Martha says
Have patience
william says
always be there for them
Angie says
Always try to be your child’s #1 Fan!
Leigh says
BE the example you want for your child.
Julie says
Spend lots of time with your children!
kathleen says
Just relax. Have fun with your new baby. Give him/her lots of love.
vanessa says
Help your mate! You got into your situation together so you should see your way through it together. She will love you more than ever!
Samantha says
try not to freak out, you’ll do plenty of that when they’re teenagers!
Deb says
Talk to your baby. They may not understand everything you say, but they love the sound of your voice.
Kathleen says
Have lots of patience and help buy spending quality time with your child.
kathy says
give your child lots of hugs and kisses
Geoff says
Don’t be afraid to show your emotions or to express yourself, even when you risk letting your guard down! Your kids will benefit greatly from your emotional honesty and openness, and they will be more likely to confide in you and turn to you for support.
teri says
Stick with 1 kid!
Jason says
Thank You.
Tarah says
Don’t wait for your wife to ask for help, just offer it at any and all times.
john says
Be prepared for the expected and unexpected at all times.
Sheila says
Have lots and lots of patience, its always gets better! And poop happens, be prepared!
MIKE says
BE SMART ENOUGH TO KNOW YOU DON’T KNOW EVERYTHING ABOUT BEING A GOOD DAD, AND DON’T BE AFRAID TO ASK FOR HELP
Frances says
to be patient with the children
Jack says
Recognize that nobody is perfect, but if you do the best you can, things willmprobably work out ok.
Terri says
Spend time with your child! This will allow you to bond with your child and will give your spouse/partner a break as well.
Talitha says
Give your wife at least an hour or two a day of totally baby free time. It will make her happy and give you a chance to bond with your baby.
Shania says
You’ll make mistakes, everyone does, but the important thing is to be there and to try your best.
Robert says
Know who you are before trying to help them find out who they are, so you don’t try to make them who they “should be”… then… patience…. patience… patience…
James says
LISTEN!
Starr says
hope to win
Starr says
hope to win
Kathy says
Take time to get to know your new tax deduction.
Carla says
Spend every moment with your child work can’t be first!
Carla
cpullum(at)yahoo(dot)com
Christina says
My best advice for a new dad is to put your wife and children first.
susan says
help not only during the day but at night- share the load
JAMES says
DON’T START AN AFFAIR WITH THE BABYSITTER:)
MA says
Relax and enjoy!
Beverley says
Look your child in the eyes, and listen, really listen.
Randall says
Show them they are the most important thing on earth. Show your child how much you love them daily. Strongly rule with a gentle hand. Always take time out to recognize the smallest accomplishment. Kiss your kids and hug them often. Tell your kids you are sorry if you make a mistake, let them know you are not perfect, but you are trying your best. Listen to what they have to say, sometimes they have an untainted outlook on things, you might learn something from them. Plan on playing hookie from other obligations on occassion and make the day all about your child. Let it be their special day. Don’t wait for a special occassion for a gift, just do it out of the blue, because they exist and they are yours. Read to your kids and teach them to budget and save. So emotion in front of your kids, I never knew men were allowed to cry. This isn’t weakness it is human. Brag on your kids, they are the legacy you will leave behind, show them how proud you are. Teach them right from wrong but on try to rule them, let them make some of their own decissions, when it comes down to the wire most will follow their heart and choose the right path. Don’t show disappointment, quickest way to break a spirit. Never lie to your kids, it is next to impossible to rebuild lost trust.
Angel says
Be understanding and lend a helping hand even though you are not sure how to do it.
teresa says
to be patient with the children and mostly yourself
teresa says
to be patient with the children and mostly yourself
Kirsten says
Jump right in and don’t be offended if your wife doesn’t think you dressed your child right or did this differently. That happens all the time. Change the diapers, dress them, feed them, bond with them. You are as important as mommy is.
Melissa says
Don’t be afraid to hold the baby and your wife. They both need it!
Rick says
Don’t worry, in a couple years it’ll get a little bit easier wait for 5th yr they say some funny things ;D
Sarah says
spend as much time with your child as you can, it’s the best gift you could give them!
leloni says
Listen!!
Cathie says
I agree with everything Randall said but would add Be prepaired to say no to them sometimes, even though you know , for a bit at least, they will hate you for it
Victor says
When you are watching your child it is not considered “babysitting.” Also give your wife atleast a half hour break everyday… she deserves it and will reward you for it…
Jason says
Lay off the booze when you are with the kids
JAMES says
LEARN TO GET BY ON VERY LITTLE SLEEP
MICHAEL says
Get your wife out of the house. Take her to dinner and a movie that she wants to see.
PATRIC says
Learn how to change diapers. And change them once in a while. Every day would be good.
Cynthia says
Starting from day one, reserve a portion of your day to spend exclusively with your child.
Margaret says
To have patience and remember the baby won’t break. Help out the new mom as much as possible too.
Andrew says
Enjoy it, it goes by fast.
Robert says
Enjoy every minute, because they grow up very fast.
Tesa says
Wash the dishes and do the laundry unexpectedly. It makes a wonderful gift!
Zoly says
Spend time at home with your family and get to know them. You will be with them a lot longer than your buddies and acquaintances.
Barbara says
support your wife.Don’t be jealous. give that baby lots of kisses.
veronica says
Have fun. don’t be afraid.
Karen says
Get involved!
Susan says
Give your wife some alone time.
Angela says
Just be involved in raising the child and help out as much as you can.
Vicky says
be patient.
Sandy says
Be patient. Try to help mom as much as possible and be involved. Spend qaulity alone time with your family and really get to know them and all their quirks so you aren’t having to rely on others to tell you what is needed.
russell says
Learn to take it easy. Don’t sweat the small stuff.
Carol says
Not only learn to get by on little sleep, but remember that mom has probably had even less than you!
ron says
do you swing?