Posts Tagged ‘Race’

Dads in the Mix: John Doe-Berg

Monday, March 8th, 2010

I lost my identity.  I was born identifying as a middle class white Jew.  I no longer identify religiously nor do I identify as being white.  My own family is “mixed” and, as I have come to understand, race identification is only a consequence of prejudice anyway.  I am part of a human family.  So, I lost the identity I grew up with or rather, I dissociated from it.  Am I worse off?  I don’t think so.  In fact, it is quite the opposite.  I now have an identity that is truly my own rather than pushed onto me by family and society.  Having said that, I do realize others may identify me differently than I do myself and some of the things I am today are also things assigned to me.

But, while I am relatively secure in my identity (mind you, while keeping an open mind), my kids are still developing theirs.  I think a lot about what role I will play in how they will know themselves as they mature.  Should I be fostering a connection to a religion that I don’t completely believe in, if it means giving them a chance to understand their heritage or be a part of a community?  Should I be promoting identity with one racial group over another even though I know that is giving ammunition to hatred, if it means enabling them to identify?

Certainly it is important to identify with a community and have a strong sense of belonging.  We all strive to be a part of something bigger than ourselves.  But it is just as important to be an individual with your own thoughts and reason?  Can you belong and still be separate?  I think that is the model for a successful community. 

The specific issues I deal with in my family are Judaism and blackness.  I was raised Jewish and my wife is black.  There are elements from both extremes that pull at me and will pull at my kids.  I certainly want them to know where they come from and their family history.  I want them to learn about who they are and be proud of it.  There are, however, elements that would criticize me for just being in an interracial and interfaith relationship.  These are people who say I am abandoning my race or religion or that my wife is giving up her unique blackness.  That is nonsense.  Truthfully, creating heterogeneous generations only lessons prejudice and hate.  It does not necessitate abandoning a connection to one’s heritage to do it.  And, what is wrong with using our heritages to create a new shared heritage?

So many people hear the word assimilation and are frightened because they feel they will lose something that is uniquely theirs.  I agree that assimilation is not the best word to use.  I like integration much better because it implies a two-way process.  We redefine ourselves by absorbing the good things in other cultures while still retaining our own.  Although we are becoming a nation of acceptance and tolerance at a rapid rate, specifically black and Jewish identity in America has been defined by factors that hinder this type of fluid reciprocal acceptance and incorporation. 

According to Harvard Sociologist Orlando Patterson, “The Act of Emancipation abolished only the first part of slavery, the master’s ownership; far from removing the concept of the ex-slave as someone who did not belong, it reinforced it.”  There is no doubt we have come a long way especially since the civil rights movement and the abolishment of Jim Crow.  But, even today as we worship black celebrities, our private lives are still quite segregated and, in the States, there is still a definite fear of losing our connection to our white or black “race.”

As far as Judaism, there is a strong sense of identity that takes it beyond the realm of just a religion into the sphere of “peoplehood” due to many factors, not the least of which is a struggle for a homeland and a shared history of being the victims of attempted genocide.

Therefore, if I don’t raise my kids Jewish, I am looked at as wrong by some and, if my kids don’t identify as strictly black, they will be considerer traitors to others.  I won’t give in to the guilt.  Our identities are what we decide and there is no reason we cannot be proud of our history and keep our heritage alive while, at the same time, defining ourselves for ourselves.

I have heard much jingoistic rhetoric railing against multiculturalism because other nations don’t have what America does or other races don’t have what “ours” does or other religions … you get the idea.  Do they mean the good or the bad, the freedom or the poverty, the justice or the crime?  Every culture on Earth has good and bad and every person has something to give and only ignorance and close-mindedness prevents us from learning from others and growing and changing from what we learn.

Ultimately, what I believe is that we need to teach our children to be good people who practice loving kindness and the universal values shared by all people, regardless of religious, ethnic or racial identity.

Dads in the Mix: Check Box

Friday, July 10th, 2009

When my wife and I were first together we visited one of those computerized photo booths where they can combine your photos to give you an idea of what your child might look like. It’s completely scientific, I’m sure. You have to select the race of the child in the morphed image and I believe the options were black, white, Hispanic or Asian. Since I am white and my wife is black and you couldn’t choose two races or biracial, we decided to choose a Hispanic girl. I won’t go into what the photo looked like, especially with the wisp of a goatee she apparently would inherit from my side. But, it struck me that if we had kids, there would be these types of issues we would have to address.

In fact, whenever I bring up raising mixed-race children, the first question that comes up is, “which box do I check?” So, I did a little research. I started my investigation with the obvious and timely – the U.S. census. United States census 2010 is quickly approaching and with it, controversy regarding how we count our citizenry. In 1997 the Office of Management and Budget (OMB) announced revised standards for federal data on race and ethnicity. The categories are now American Indian or Alaskan Native, Asian, Black or African American, Native Hawaiian or Other Pacific Islander, White and Some Other race. Included on the census are two categories for ethnicity, Hispanic or Latino and Not Hispanic or Latino since Hispanics/Latinos may be of any race. Also under consideration was a multiracial category but the OMB decided instead to allow people to check more than one category. So, there’s your answer as far as the United States government is concerned, check all that apply.

When I brought this up to my wife, she asked me how race was defined by the United States government, what the difference between race and ethnicity is and why it matters when the constitution dictates merely “enumeration shall be made….” I realized then that the discussion needs to encompass how and why we define our race and how and why others might.

So, in order to be more exhaustive, here is the exact wording of the U.S. Census Bureau, 2000 Census of Population, Public Law 94-171 Redistricting Data File, Appendix B, page 2.

“The concept of race as used by the Census Bureau reflects self-identification by people according to the race or races with which they most closely identify. These categories are sociopolitical constructs and should not be interpreted as being scientific or anthropological in nature. Furthermore, the race categories include both racial and national-origin groups.” They break down each category specifically as well (http://quickfacts.census.gov/qfd/meta/long_68178.htm). As far as the only choice for ethnicity on the Census, The Census Bureau defines Hispanic or Latino as “a person of Cuban, Mexican, Puerto Rican, South or Central American or other Spanish culture or origin regardless of race.” To be all-inclusive, there is also write-in space for tribe affiliation and other races that one may choose to define themselves.

So, basically race is what we, the people, say it is. In fact, it is proven scientifically that race cannot be determined biologically. Biologically, human beings are greater than 99% similar and any genetic differences between “races” are fewer than between people of the same “race.” There are obvious physical similarities between, for instance, geological groupings of people but they are trivial in the scope of overall genetic make-up. Certainly, I am not saying we are clones of each other but the differences between us are significant only at the individual level, making each one of us a unique member of the human race.

I could go into the complicated formulae the government or anthropologists use to determine the various race categories but a blog entry should probably not be 100,000 words. The obvious and more important question is the one my wife asked – Why does race matter? Why do we even need these categories and classifications if everyone is so similar? The answer simply is that race exists because racism exists. We classify people so that data can be tracked and the problem of prejudice can be illustrated so it can be overcome.

Although so many are working to eradicate it and progress is slow but positive, racism is still everywhere in our society. Health care, housing, employment, education, congressional redistricting (the issue du jour) and other societal resources and benefits are affected by past and current, personal and institutional prejudice. This needs to be made as visible as possible in order to combat it. That is why racial classifications exist, at least for the time being.

As far as checking more than one box, the NAACP complained that it dilutes their racial representation and thereby whitewashes their issues (please excuse the unintentional pun). But, at least where the census is concerned, when you check multiple boxes, the data represents you as each of those races independently and as multiple races. So, specific races are not losing people that associate with multiple races. Others may feel that identifying racial data benefits groups by reverse racism or that by associating with groups that are “stereotyped” in a positive light; a mixed-race person will gain greater privileges. But, without identifying racial data, none of this can be analyzed and the playing field may never approach even. As the world becomes a smaller place with knowledge sharing and as generations mix more and more, I believe we will focus more on our similarities and not our differences, prejudice will dissipate and eventually it won’t matter because we will all check human race.

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