Worst Dads: Dad charged with binding girl with tape

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Paul Banas

Maybe at this point, it’s just piling on, but sometimes things people do with or to kids, supposedly thinking it’s all in good fun, are just too much. Here a single dad saw his daughter playing with packing tape and decided it would be funny to wrap it around her legs and hands and over her mouth and post a picture on Facebook. To make matters worse, he labeled the photo “Here’s wut (sic) happens when my baby hits me back. ; )”

And, now of course, he is clogging the courts with an aggravated assault charge. He can’t have contact with his daughter or any child under 18 while the case is pending. He is also not allowed on the Internet.

Amazingly stupid and lacking any humor for a dad whose mom says her son is a “big jokester.”

[From Dad charged with binding girl with tape ‘feels awful’ - Chicago Sun-Times]

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That does it for me: Dad’s harness breaks while parasailing

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Paul Banas

DAD SAID: ‘IT’S GREAT UP HERE’.. THEN FELL – mirror.co.uk

I just took my daughter parasailing in Hawaii. Several days before, I spent a ton of time researching whether there are ever accidents and if I was the worst dad ever for thinking of taking my nine year old daughter on a ride a couple hundred feet over the Pacific.

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The more I read, the better I felt though. Accidents like the one described here, which is about as horrible as they come, appear to now only happen outside the US, where there are few if any controls. I would never think of parasailing in Mexico, for example.

The day of, we spent about two hours waiting for the winds to calm down so we could take our turn. More accidents do happen when conditions are bad enough to think about canceling but aren’t severe enough for local entrepreneurs to shut off the money machine. I was reassured that this team had a perfect safety record. Our ride went off without a hitch, and all I could really complain about was the nausea that started to intensify after sailing around for 15 minutes. At a certain point, you just want down.

It’s hard not to think about every ten seconds about the possibility of this happening: the harness breaks or the chute is punctured and you fall like the proverbial stone. It isn’t really that ironic that this poor guy was just saying what would happen, because, when you’re up there, it tends to be what you talk about because it’s always on your mind. Sad story. All I can say is that I’m glad she wasn’t just a little girl like mine, though the tragedy is just as horrible.

My little boy is six and now wants to try it. Maybe next time, it’s my wife’s turn.

Dad Glenn Hudson was happily tandem parasailing with his daughter Emma when he joked at 150ft they would be goners if their harnesses snapped.

Tragically, just moments later, the very thing Glenn had laughed about happened – as his harness broke and he hurtled helplessly to his death after hitting the beach.

[From DAD SAID: 'IT'S GREAT UP HERE'.. THEN FELL - mirror.co.uk]

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Study: Time with dad key to kids’ happiness

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Paul Banas
More and more studies are being done that show the importance of strong bonds between dads and kids. Many of us have known this intuitively for years, and will not be surprised as more research confirms dad’s role in healthy, strong kids.
The most recent study, done with 1200 children ages 11 to 15, by the Children’s Society in Great Britain, shows that kids who spend time with dad are happier than those who don’t. Kids who talk to to their dads “most days” give themselves an average of 87 out of a 100 on a happiness scale, versus 79 for those who do not. The Children’s Society says that these results echo those in another study that show that happiness in adult life can be correlated with stronger relationships with parents during the teen years.
In the study, 28% of kids say they “hardly ever” speak to their moms about important subjects. That number rises to 50% for kids talking to dads.
Like the famous studies showing the value of roughhouse play, which is almost always done by dads, this study confirms our belief in the importance of promoting stronger dad child bonds.

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Recall on Infantino SlingRider baby slings – 3 dead

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Paul Banas

We had previously recommended the Infantino SlingRider for its easy access and comfort. However, this sling, perhaps more than some others has a potential to suffocate underweight or premature babies, or those with breathing difficulties such as a cold. The recall also includes the Infantino “Wendy Bellisimo” sling.

WASHINGTON – More than 1 million baby slings made by Infantino were recalled Wednesday after claims linking them to three infant deaths.
The Consumer Product Safety Commission said babies could suffocate in the soft fabric slings. The agency urged parents to immediately stop using the slings for babies under 4 months.
The recall involves 1 million Infantino “SlingRider” and “Wendy Bellissimo” slings in the United States and 15,000 in Canada.

[From More than 1 million baby slings recalled - Yahoo! News]

The Consumer Product Safety Commission also warned that all slings can be dangerous if used improperly. Make sure that babies mouth and face are clear of fabric and plainly in view when using. Small babies, especially, can not twist themselves into a breathing position and may become stuck without being able to breathe.

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Help me understand how this helps anyone: Ill. dad gets jail for son’s skateboarding death

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Paul Banas

Admittedly, this is 20 times more stupid, if true, than leaving a baby in a locked car. The news reports though says there is some question whether he actually new the child was being towed. Even if he did know, I would think the judge would have to either say he was basically not competent to do anything rather than try to “punish” him for his stupidity. What good does that do anyone?

DECATUR, Ill. – A central Illinois man has been sentenced to 60 days in jail and 18 months probation for running over his 12-year-old son while towing the boy on a skateboard.

Timothy W. Melvin on Monday said he didn’t realize he was pleading guilty to child endangerment. He says he didn’t mean to say he knew his son was standing on a skateboard and hanging on to a window of Melvin’s car on April 2, 2008.

[From Ill. dad gets jail for son's skateboarding death -- chicagotribune.com]

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