I'm a phenomenal father and husband. I do all the things listed and then some. After 10 years of her throwing me a bone during the "hot" part of her cycle. I implemented this algorithm: Every night, I ask for sex. When she says "no" I either go to the gym, or work on my profiles at online dating sites. Its important to be honest about your situation online and to be discrete. This is worked exceptionally well. She still believes that she is dolling out sex as I complete menial tasks around the house and I'm getting more sex than I can handle.