• Separation
  
• Noises
  
• Falling
  
• Animals
  
• Insects
  
• Using the potty
  
• Bathing
  
• Bedtime
  

• Be sympathetic – but not overprotective
  
• Listen and then talk – let your toddlers talk out their bad dreams. It’s your job then to assure them that dreams are not real and there is nothing to be scared of
  
• Don't prolong the good-byes – this only adds to their anxiety. See also our article on Separation Anxiety.
  
• Reassure them that you'll be back soon – give them an approximate time and then keep your promise
  
• Help them develop skills – give your toddlers a small lamp to help them sleep or teach them to use a small flash light to learn to use the potty on their own
  
• Avoid the temptation to say things like, “Stop being silly,” or “You’re being ridiculous.” Kids need to know that you respect their feelings. You should still help them see evidence that no one is under the bed, but make sure they understand that you’re on their side.
  

Comfort Objects