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Teens have their own personalities and needs and wants and you ignore
these at your own peril.  We have
come to an uneasy peace with our travel desires, refusing still to
quit, but alert to how travel has to change based on the different ages
of our kids. Here are a few things we learned along the way: Traveling with Teens
The protracted screech of a braking train is perhaps the only thing
less pleasant than the thought of a no-escape vacation in close
quarters with a teenager. Travel can bring out the worst in people and
if you are going through a rough patch with your teenager, don’t expect
a family vacation to bring out the Waltons in you. There are things
you can do, however, to increase your chances of good holiday. Ask your
teen to help plan the trip, and make sure it includes things he or she
wants to do. Avoid long drives in the car. Allow time for more
leisure activities like time in the pool, even if you’re in a “once in
a lifetime” spot. Go easy on iPod and video game restrictions to allow
everyone a chance to chill out. And, try to keep your own emotions and
reactions in check and stop yourself from saying things out loud that
will only create more conflict.
Summertime travel can sometimes feel like a sacrifice when each person
can’t get exactly what he wants. Travel dynamics and logistics are not
nearly as easy as when you were a couple without kids. But like a lot
of things in life with kids, if you look at children as an opportunity
rather than as an obstacle, you can find things to do together that are
made even more special because you are seeing things through their eyes.
To read travel tips for dads with younger children, click Travel Tips for Dads with Babies
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