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Do NOT Argue with a Pregnant Woman

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W. Grant Eppler   Print
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Perhaps the most important male/male discussion I have had regarding women, and in particular pregnant women, was with my brother-in-law, Jay. He asked me to lunch to discuss and describe examples of what a father-to-be could expect during the coming months of gestation. He actually said that women have all the books, pamphlets, and flyers needed to help guide them through these months. He found that guys have very little, if anything, to reference from a man’s point of view to help them through these wonderfully difficult months. Having just gone through it, (producing a son) he wanted to share his first-hand observations and learned behavioral patterns, in the hopes of sparing his sister and me some of the growing pains he and his wife had experienced.

 

We had a great lunch. He shared funny stories of some of his pregnant wife’s peculiar behavioral situations to help illustrate his various points. Now, seeing that I have been known to hyperbolize or embellish the truth to help lubricate an otherwise dry topic or story, I have chosen not to reproduce in writing the instances that he gave to drive home the most important piece of information that I have gleaned so far. Do not, however, allow this to deter you from fully understanding this most significant condensed piece of information:

 

Do not argue with a pregnant woman.

 

Do not argue with a pregnant woman. What she experiences the baby experiences. Her discomfort, physical and/or mental, is the baby’s discomfort. Lest we forget our goal: The goal here is to deliver a healthy, happy baby a few months from now. All that lends itself to this goal should be incorporated, because a happy baby is one of life’s biggest joys.

 

Do not argue with a pregnant woman for it serves no purpose. With all of the extra hormones that have been activated, you may find there is little emotional stability. There may be no sane point of reference from which to advocate your beliefs. Whatever semblance of sanity this woman previously held, that you had loved and admired, can vacate her mind, soul and body in a millisecond (kind of like the days before the wedding). What used to be OK can now be not OK in a nanosecond. The reasons for which she fell in love with you can now make her feel sick to her stomach. And worst of all, she may not hesitate to tell you about it!

 

Do not argue with a pregnant woman. It is best to claim responsibility for all problems big and small before they become an issue between you. A simple real-life example: My pregnant wife and I went to the movies, in a not-so-good part of town. She drove. She left the headlights on (to light up the parking lot? To make it easier to find the car in broad daylight?). When we came out, the battery was dead. Having remembered the discussion with my brother-in-law and this new pregnancy credo, instead of making some snarky remark I immediately chimed with, “I’m sorry honey, it’s my fault. I saw you turn them on, I made a mental note to check them before we went into the movies, I forgot to do so, It’s my fault.” You will be amazed at how liberating it can be to not fight.

 

I am not inferring that a pregnant woman cannot make and hold a cogent, intelligent, and valid argument! I am simply saying that if you can help to avoid pointless arguments and she can remain steadily happy, it will help the baby.

 

Hopefully, at some point a month or so after delivery, she will remember the gallant swallowing of pride and bile you went through to avoid fighting with her during those trying months. If not, you still avoided arguments for six months!

 

Do not argue with a pregnant woman 

UNLESS

 

she is smoking, drinking, or you have some other huge investment at stake. Protecting one’s family, home, and possessions still falls on the guy’s shoulders in most relationships. Not wanting your pregnant wife to drink or smoke falls under protecting the health of your child and your family. The validity of this argument is documented with so much medical evidence that there is no counter argument. If your wife was a smoker before pregnancy and gave it up cold turkey, she may try to sneak a puff or two a couple of weeks after quitting. Hopefully, this regression will make her turn green and feel so sick that you can support her in sickness and in not smoking, rather than fighting with her.

 

If that fails, you must make your feelings known, strongly, evenly, and unequivocally.

 

- W. Grant Eppler

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By NATHASIA,   From UK
This is my testimonial on how Dr.Zabaza of zabazalogan@yahoo. com brought back my lover within 48hours, I came across Dr.Zabaza email address through the search engine few days ago, so i emailed him about my condition and how my lover left me. He told me it would take him only 48hours to get my ex back to me, my ex called me 48hours later just as Dr.Zabaza told me begging me to forgive him and forget about the past and he is ready to make up for lost time.Thank you Dr.Zabaza for the good job you did for me continue the good work. Contact Dr.Zabaza via email on zabazalogan@yahoo. com or call +2348182620374

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By CandyPierre,   From florida
I had been all over the internet trying to find someone who could help me out with my situation, I loved my my husband so much but he never loved me rather he goes out with other females then one day I found prophetharry@ymail. com in the internet where he had helped many women who had the same issue with me, when i contacted him he said he will help me and just as he said. my husband concetred fully on me and he stopped all his bad habit I was astounded because so many say they are the best but can't back it. but prof really surprised me till today, his love spell not only brought my husband back but also the spell made my husband to change to a good man
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Thanks spell goddess. you are wonderfully sweet to meet.

By Jeaa,   From USA
A couple of years ago then i was still in Utah, my husband and i got into a fight and he moved out and said he cant live with me and his son anymore because i cut him cheating seeing the messages and emails on his phone, and even pictures they snapped in the beach with a young girl, he denials it and left for another state so that he can have al the time in world to be free with this girl. My heart could not contain the pains that i had to travel to my home town, The a friend told me about a spell lady who helped her when she got dumped by her boyfriend. this sound crazy to me that my husband i trust with my life could do this to me. it was so unbelievable. I cried all night long, locked myself in a padded room, and thought about how miserable my life was, so i look at the web site my friend gave me about the spell lady at priestessifaagreatspellpowers . web. com, and i saw how powerful and helpful she would be. i contacted her and she decide to help me and guarantee me of results in 2days, i thought this was a joke, how can i see result so quickly, but i gave in to see, and at the actual time, my husband came apologizing for all his stupid act, this looks scary because this was so fast and accurate, But the most happiest part is that my family is once united again just as it was when we got married.
The spell lady has no measure and i can never stop spreading her good works for bringing me happiness and joy. She helped my friend and now am testifying to it, why not do the same and dont make mistake in meeting rip you off on your pain. her email is priestessifaa @yahoo. com,
Thanks spell goddess. you are wonderfully sweet to meet.

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I am Lina from the canada .I never believe in spells and magic until I experienced one sometimes ago and it really worked for me. I was in love with this guy and he is in love with me too for 3years and we making preparations to get married but to my surprise,his parents didn't want his hand in the marriage cos of the religion difference.I was about loosing my man to another lady under the influence of his parents until I met a spell caster on net that claimed he can help me out.He helped me cast a very strong spell that helped change his parents mind and i noticed also that my man love for me has greatly increased.We are happily married now with kids.People with similar problems can contact the spell caster on: dovasagawhitemagictemple@gmail. com

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By bumpmaker,   From iowa
To all those angry pregnant ladies. Why don't you just castrate your husband if you hate them so much. Stop making excuses. Take some damn responsibilities on your emotions. Stop making things bigger than they are. A freaking single word said can be turned against your husband. That's RIDICULOUS. Your husband is going to die of heart attack and will lose all of his hair and you will end up having ugly husband and ugly baby. There I said it. Good night.

By Sarah,   From Gainesville
Being a female I will probably get harped for this, but here goes nothing;
I agree petty arguments should be avoided on BOTH sides, yes you too ladies. I and 5.5 months pregnant and I feel like a monster, I get angry all the time for no reason whatso ever. I feel depressed, ugly, tired, and excited at the same time. However, I acknowledge and apologize on a regular basis. I have a great man who really cares about me: but sometimes hits a point. Yes, sometimes we argue, or mostly at that point just walk away without talking to later come back to it. I dont try to blame him for it, and i explain it too him. Sometimes i tell him I'm angry and I dont know why, please give me space.
He doesnt have to, nor do I want him to admit to being wrong when hes not, that takes away from when he actually is. Similarly, I need to admit it when I am. Believe me we have issues, and sometimes he has no idea how to make me happy he says. I wish he would listen to me on that point though lol, its not his fault that Im not. My emotions are on a roller coaster, I cant explain it :-( But I know that he loves me, and he just has to remember that Im trying: and I have to remember that he is.
The point is that its not entirely anyone' s fault; but both of your responsibility for not just the baby's sake, but your relationship as well. I will admit that it feels like as a woman we have an unfair burden, but we also have a deeper connection with the little one :-)

ps. reading the posts from men helps women too, but guys try not to be so harsh. Were both so defensive of our respective sides when its a TEAM, it took two to make that baby!

By guru,   From ca
i am from United States, I was in a relationship with woman and we loved and cherished ourselves for 3 good years and every thing was going on smoothly but February 14, 2012 a day i can call a lovers day we both had misunderstanding because i answered a call from a woman that is asking me out for a date but i refused,and she told me that the relationship is over and that she is fed up with me and i begged her because i love her so much but she refused me,i was so down eager to cast a spell and i felt the world has come to an end for me but my friend told me about a spell caster that helped his sister out in getting her relationship back,a good job and favor in any of her endeavor but at first i was scared but i have to give this man a trial because i love her very much and i am not willing to loose her to any man,so i ordered winning my love spell from this great spell caster that made me a happy man again to say it all my ex came back to me with much love and a caring heart...i am testifying of this great spell caster. if you need his help you can contact him on email winexbackspell@gmail. com

By jallin,   From canada
I WAS IN LOVE WITH MY BOYFRIEND HE DUMPED ME FOR ANOTHER GIRL I WAS THE PERSON WHO PAID FOR HIS SCHOOLS THROUGH OUT HIS SCHOOLING DAYS BUT HE WAS NEVER THANKFUL UNTIL I FOUND A GREAT SPELL CASTER
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By Lucian,   From Texas
Am so grateful that i met a spell caster online whose email is vudoospell@gmail. com that cast a spell for me that finally reunited me and my husband back together.
I tried many other spell casters, they all took my money and never did anything for me, but this last one i gave a try worked just as i wanted it.
Lucian.

By Lucian,   From Texas
Am so grateful that i met a spell caster online whose email is vudoospell@gmail. com that cast a spell for me that finally reunited me and my husband back together.
I tried many other spell casters, they all took my money and never did anything for me, but this last one i gave a try worked just as i wanted it.
Lucian.

By Darcey,   From Lancashire England
To JUST....you are a complete prat

You never hear pregnant women comparing their feelings to that of when they were a teenager. WHY? Because it's not the bl++dy same. If all you can do to connect with your partner is compare her feelings to those you felt when you were 16 (when you weren't growing a baby, having to give up a career or deal with a very un-emphathic fella) then I feel really sorry for her. Maybe time you looked in the mirror to ask yourself could you be doing more?????...probably.

By Just,   From UK
To all these women suggesting that their men read this article take a long look in the mirror and ask if you want to behave like that?

My Finance is 3 months pregnant and she is both constantly starting arguments and then suggesting that I am harming the baby because she is upset. Obviously she is the one causing harm and she needs to learn to take responsibility for her actions and learn to control her hormones.

Everyone has had to deal with raging hormones during their teenage years and no-one makes any excuses for bad of teenager boys so why should we excuse these ridiculous outbursts.

Rather than pointing your husbands towards a website advocating total submission to a hysterical unbalanced crazy how about just realising it is you that is causing the problem and you have the solution. A hint - stop acting like a crazy woman and have some respect for yourself.

By John,   From Pittsburgh
Women need to understand what men go through. My fiance and I moved to another state because I received a job opportunity. Everything was going good and then she got pregnant. I was as happy as can be, but then something changed. Every little thing I did was wrong and these little fights turned into huge fights. She became a totally different person and even though I would try to show support, tell her she's beautiful, buy her flowers and always rub her belly to show how excited I was. Recently she started telling me she wants to move back to her home state and when I tell her I can't do that because I have a great job, she says well I'm just gonna leave you and move back myself. Women need to understand that we put up with a lot of crap, but most of the single moms are caused from the women having an attitude and most men can't take it. I will never have another child, I thought this would be a joyful experience and boy was I way off.

By Doug,   From Indianapolis
That's why you should never argue with your babys mother while she is pregnant with your child.you could miss out on the love of your life and end up with someone you realy dont care about. I'm in love with my woman are you.

By Doug,   From Indianapolis
And, that part about being with another woman and starting another family is what she said I should do, but the thing is I dont want another woman. I want and am in love with her. Do you get what it I saying brothers.

By Doug,   From Indianapolis
My fiance Is 5 months pregnant now, We get into an argument because I wanted her to come to my family reunion. It was my birthday, I do admit when she said no I did get a little upset. I believe in family Even if they did you wrong. The argument did not get heated until she decided to downgrade my side of the family while company was there. So in the end I wound up hurting her and her emotions. Now she has kicked me out of the house. I'm living in a motel and working hard everyday. I still have to make ends meet for my baby and my family with her. However once I left her older children moved back into our home. I'm supposed to return home in 3 days, but everytime I talk to her on the phone it sounds like she's going through more drama than when I was there. Her children is her children, she loves them and I care about them. But my child I'm going to love unconditionally. So returning home I don't know, I think I might have to stay out here until I get my own place, you know, stand as a man for my child so that she can be raised properly and maybe maybe I will be able to finally return back to my home with her and even her children. Because I love her and my baby the most. It does get lonely though, I do have feelings for at least having a woman around. But I will never cheat on her. But if things are not done in a timely manner I will go somewhere else and start another family and still take care of my baby. I love them both but moves have to be made. Also, I don't want our baby to grow up in a home without both parents living there helping her, supporting her, and caring about her and her future. Because, it could ruin her during her psyhosexual stages where she learnes about both parents, where she starts to develope love feelings for me and later identify with her mother. That's very important to a childs development.

By Macy,   From New York
I'm soooo glad to find this page. My husband needs to read this article. He's a complete idiot when it comes to my feelings right now. I'm 2 months and he acts more moody than me. He does not even try to avoid arguments.. Everything about him gets on my last nerve. He raises his voices, doesn't return my calls or texts sometimes. He's am idiot and i'm second thinking this whole relationship. He's a wimp sissy that avoids arguments by not communicating with me at all. Big problem! Oh well.

By Cole,   From Charlotte
My girlfriend of 3 months recently got pregnant she is 29 and initially we planned to get married and then without any provocation decided she didn't want to get married nor did she want the baby.She doesn't want me involved with the child. She won't communicate except through text messages, won't allow me to come to any appointments, led me to beleive she had an abortion for weeks, doesn't want my name on birth certificate or the baby to have my last name. She also insists I not be in the delivery room and she doesn't want me to have any contact with the baby until it's 3 months old. She admits to feeling very stressed and that she never wanted kids. I tried to support her and she pushed me away. What makes a woman behave this way and when should I back off. I do intend to seek legal counsel to see what my paternal rights are but as for her how could you ever trust she wouldn't continue to behave this way in the future. Please help I appreciate other thoughts that aren't biased.

By Cole,   From Charlotte
My girlfriend of 3 months recently got pregnant she is 29 and initially we planned to get married and then without any provocation decided she didn't want to get married nor did she want the baby.She doesn't want me involved with the child. She won't communicate except through text messages, won't allow me to come to any appointments, led me to beleive she had an abortion for weeks, doesn't want my name on birth certificate or the baby to have my last name. She also insists I not be in the delivery room and she doesn't want me to have any contact with the baby until it's 3 months old. She admits to feeling very stressed and that she never wanted kids. I tried to support her and she pushed me away. What makes a woman behave this way and when should I back off. I do intend to seek legal counsel to see what my paternal rights are but as for her how could you ever trust she wouldn't continue to behave this way in the future. Please help I appreciate other thoughts that aren't biased.

By jasmine,   From scotland
andy from ann harbour, yeah its tough on guys dealing with hormonal women but give your wife some sympathy, obviously her mum is a total manipulative bitch and right now your wife (no matter what she has said) will feel ugly, fat and disgusting and probably think you want to be with all these other women, her mum needs to back off and i totally agree that she shouldnt sit or hit you but i am 26 weeks pregnant and for the first 16 weeks me and my guys arguements were horrendous, violence never came into it but i remember wanting to hit him so badly because i really couldnt control it, imagine your self at your angriest/ saddest moment, now imagine having that ALL the time without any reason, then you also look at yourself, see a fat disgusting person in the mirror and remembering how much better youn looked before pregnancy you know? its horrible with all the hormones and trust me, if we all could control em, we would because its heart breaking getting into and arguement with the babys dad, especially when they seem to look at you with utter resentment, try talking to her, let whatever nasty comments go in one ear and out the other, make her tea and try work through it, if you love her dont let her go because she was probably pretty amazing before pregnancy, dont let 9 hard months ruin however long your marriage has been, i do have major sympathy for all guys but i speak for a lot of women when i say it is the hardest time in our life! :)

By marie,   From brooklyn
I hate being (P) I have been sick, sick throughout this whole thing. I am now 31weeks, my husband and i disagree over little stuff and my job right now is a pain. Somebody plz help, I an so stress out my OB will not put me on disability. I am tired I can do it no more, and my job is my only insurance, what am I going to do?

By Jess,   From Australia QLD
I came across this while looking up on Google 'can relationship stress effect an unborn baby's'... I'm currently 31weeks + 6 days and its really nice to actually read that some men take into consideration how us women feel when we are carrying with us, alot of emotion, feels of constant worry that we are eating, an doing the right thing for our unborn child... for almost 9 months its not just about us pregnant women being bitchy or emotional wrecks because to be honest we are not only just trying to work out our own emotions we are constantly worrying about our baby's emotions and health and some men really don't seem to realise how hard it really is to have a massive responsibility to make sure this child comes out as best as it can and to hold ourselves together as well. ... I just wish so badly the father of my child could comprehend this an make things alot easier on me.

By alex,   From west palm
Wow atleast u guys only worry about a total bitch wife try getting abused or trying to walk away to relax yet the woman block you on top of that lose your job plus deal with her first baby daddy plus a mother in law from hell that actually manipulates het daughter convicing her of moving closer to her because her man is locked up and feels alone and you woman expect us to deal with what?? O man this is my first and last baby i ended up in jail for arguing and with that i got a domestic violence honestly??wow her mom is to blame for my wife thinking so stupidlly during and before this pregnancy so anyway my wife gets mad her mom takes her in at that time we have an order of no contact now so her mom and sis decide they want to tag team her and belittle her me meanwhile im hopeless her mom was the hero before this now she hates her mom yet cant leave because she weak low self esteemed and has all her stuff there and no help im helpless. Her mom tells her shes only good for getting pregnant and living free at that house. Its a wednesday her mom says u kno wat u have untill friday to get out if not im calling the police im having ur kids takin away and ill lie and say ur abusing ur 13 year old brothet ill put scratches on him.wow yea i kno folks its alot.anyway come saturday that bit h of her mom said sorry and my wife is still there but noticed light bleeding and cramps all i pray is they both be ok i get a job to go back to our old life which we loved and somehow those charges disappear and you ladys really think 9 months of this is easy?? Im lucky i have hair on my head. Shes 16 weeks this thursday may 3 2012 i do loce her but these mood swings atop of all other problem can hury feelings honestly right now my baby is the last thing holding us hopefully not but is we lose the baby honestly im better of alone since her mom is a bigger person then i am.smh super tough luckily im strong minded.

By amie,   From goldcoast
I'm a week off from having my 1st child, & wish i found this article sooner. To those men whinging about pregnant women, don't judge us without experiencing what we actually go thru. Most of us try to control the mood swings, but its not as easy as it sounds. Often we try to talk rationally about things before we fly off the handle, but a lot of mens attitude towards that approach sets us off.
Throughout my entire pregnancy, its been my partner who carries on & acts out the pregnancy. I can't say anything without hims flying off the rails. & heaven forbid me asking him to change anything for the sake of our child(smoking etc). Due to his attitude and behaviour i have cried everyday. Apparently its all me (according to him). But i know its not (I've even consulted proffessionals). So its not just the women. We dont expect to be treated like the queen of sheeba(we don't even want to) we just want to feel as though you love & support us. What we throw at you is nothing compared to what we throw at ourselves. And there's nothing worse than having your partner there, but still being alone. It bloody hurts.
I know its hard on you men too. You have hormonal changes too, & have a lot of things to deal with but magnify what your going thru (its still not even close to what she's going thru).
In regards to a pregnancy being 50/50, you've gotta be joking! Have the baby growing inside you for 4.5 months, then literally take on half the labour,& breastfeed your baby from your own breastmilk... then
it'll be 50/50. Until then, just be there for her. All we want is your support & understanding. If we don't have that, of course we're gonna be harpies, you don't care enough to make an effort, so why should we?
Just a final point, if mum is in a bad emotional place when pregnant (& there's a breakdown in the relationship) she's actually more likely to have post natal depression. What goes on in her head is what you have to worry about, & its generally about how horrible she is & will be, & how she hates what she's become

Forget the nasty things...

We need you & your love more than anything...

Just be there...

By amie,   From goldcoast
I'm a week off from having my 1st child, & wish i found this article sooner. To those men whinging about pregnant women, don't judge us without experiencing what we actually go thru. Most of us try to control the mood swings, but its not as easy as it sounds. Often we try to talk rationally about things before we fly off the handle, but a lot of mens attitude towards that approach sets us off.
Throughout my entire pregnancy, its been my partner who carries on & acts out the pregnancy. I can't say anything without hims flying off the rails. & heaven forbid me asking him to change anything for the sake of our child(smoking etc). Due to his attitude and behaviour i have cried everyday. Apparently its all me (according to him). But i know its not (I've even consulted proffessionals). So its not just the women. We dont expect to be treated like the queen of sheeba(we don't even want to) we just want to feel as though you love & support us. What we throw at you is nothing compared to what we throw at ourselves. And there's nothing worse than having your partner there, but still being alone. It bloody hurts.
I know its hard on you men too. You have hormonal changes too, & have a lot of things to deal with but magnify what your going thru (its still not even close to what she's going thru).
In regards to a pregnancy being 50/50, you've gotta be joking! Have the baby growing inside you for 4.5 months, then literally take on half the labour,& breastfeed your baby from your own breastmilk... then
it'll be 50/50. Until then, just be there for her. All we want is your support & understanding. If we don't have that, of course we're gonna be harpies, you don't care enough to make an effort, so why should we?
Just a final point, if mum is in a bad emotional place when pregnant (& there's a breakdown in the relationship) she's actually more likely to have post natal depression. What goes on in her head is what you have to worry about, & its generally about how horrible she is & will be, & how she hates what she's become

Forget the nasty things...

We need you & your love more than anything...

Just be there...

By NOEY,   From england
I wish men could understand that we would love to control our emotions but they are seriously out of the control from our hands... pregnancy is wonderful but my god the physical and mental change is far from that and comfort support and security is a biggy for our needs at this time. Anyone watch junior? if this was a true story, only that man good ever understand what we go through. Trust its far worse then what men get on the receiving end.... FIN

By Heather,   From NYC
Wow, Andy from Ann Arbor-- it's no wonder your wife is an emotional wreck with a husband who would refer to her in that manner. There is NEVER any excuse for that... Your words say far more about you than about her.

By Jenifer,   From Auburndale
Pregnant women do not have to apologize to anyone. When the man carries the child then u can tell us your side of the story. Till then shut up cause u helped us get this way. U r in it just as much as the woman is and u both created this child together. If she's feeling uneasy let her have some time to
Calm down. No one has to argue with anyone.

By Matt,   From Plymouth
Yeah yeah yeah... Sounds like great advice, but don't women have a responsibility to limit their hysterical behaviour as ultimately it is their actions that effect the unborn child. It all seems skewed towards women doing and saying whatever the hell they want without any of the consideration for their developing child.... Odd!

By andy,   From ann arbor
My wife is 8 months pregnant and a complete bitch. She yells at screams at me at the top of her lungs anytime she feels fit. She even punches and spits if she wants. The worst part besides her being pregnant is we have a 2 year old child around. Just a complete fireball. She has zero emotional control. I'm scared and stressed. I say one thing to her there's a chance she goes psycho. I'm seriously at the point I will call the police on this hoe ass kunt batshit ape of a human being.

By andy,   From ann arbor
My wife is 8 months pregnant and a complete bitch. She yells at screams at me at the top of her lungs anytime she feels fit. She even punches and spits if she wants. The worst part besides her being pregnant is we have a 2 year old child around. Just a complete fireball. She has zero emotional control. I'm scared and stressed. I say one thing to her there's a chance she goes psycho. I'm seriously at the point I will call the police on this hoe ass kunt batshit ape of a human being.

By Kyle,   From Pontiac
This advice is terrible in that it goes much too far. Avoiding petty quarrels is MORE important during the pregnancy but taking the blame for everything is not the answer. This will only set a precedence that will continue once the baby is born. It is not healthy to be in a relationship where everything that goes wrong is the fault of one person. Men can carry a lot but expecting them to take the blame for every wrong is absurd. Women need to learn to control their raging emotions, understand that your husband didn't change over night -- they did. Avoid the little stuff but don't let your wife abuse you. All the women that are raving about this are morons, plain and simple.

By Kuba,   From Coquitlam
I can't help but notice that it is all the women who love this advice. At the same time I wonder how they can remain in a relationship with a guy who is a doormat? You really want someone who does not voice their opinions for fear of upsetting you? And where is the medical evidence that an argument will hurt the fetus? I do what I can period to avoid arguments, but I think this advice is idiotic. Have some self-respect.

By Alex,   From London
It is the responsibility of BOTH parties to create a peaceful environment for the baby to grow in. Being pregnant does not give a woman a nine month pass to behave as she sees fit. If the beahviour is disrespectful then address it everytime. Taking the blame for everything for nine months is the stupidest advice I have ever heard, what you are doing there my friend is setting precedent for the rest of your life/marriage. I see so many unhappy husbands and its always the ones that are the yes men, the quiet ones, the ones that think not arguing gives them an easy life that are the most unhappy. Stand up and fight. Men have hormones too, dont use them as an excuses to act anyway you like and then wonder why you end up with a vacant eyed, yes dear husband. Woman too often kick the shit out of guys and turn them into husks of their former selves. Although, actually its the guy who is most at fault for allowing a person to walk all over them. Fight everything, only by making it known that acting unreasonabely will result in an exchange will people build respect for each other and treat each other as equals. Being pregnant should allow some cooling off and forgiveness of craziness but a reasonable amount. NOT 9 months of acting like the Queen of Sheba.
'it takes a real man to bite his tonuge' ??? No it takes a real man to have the perseverence and effort it requires to tackle each and every argument with the same vigour as the last. Never giving up. I do this because I love my wife and I want us to remain equals. Once dominance is established from either partner it is the end of the relationship.

By Ashley,   From Milwaukee
Really enjoyed the article! I think that if a petty fight can be avoided, why not try and do what we can to prevent it? This is a good tip for any couple, not only during pregnancy, but in a relationship/marriage in general. It makes life much easier, and your relationship that much more enjoyable. I think that many people forget that the reason we choose to have relationships, is because we enjoy one another; not because we are required to be with someone day in and day out. If you cannot be happy with someone, and cannot avoid fighting and arguing, then don't be in a relationship! To Ned, from Starsky; Don't blame all pregnant women for your wife's behavior. It sounds like you may have already been having problems prior to the pregnancy, and there was some verbal and physical abuse involved. It should not be excused, women can be abusive too. If you are in an abusive relationship... plain and simple; get out, or seek help! I do not think that the article was indicating that anyone should have to accept any sort of abuse from their partner or spouse, pregnant or not. In general, the article is just a reminder that there are ways to avoid the stress of everyday arguing, and why not try harder to do so during a sensitive time such as pregnancy? It will only be better for the relationship, and more importantly, for the growing little person :)

By Clare,   From Newcastle
Thankgod there is something that makes sense out there! , My ex was just so incompotent and started arguments without taking any responsibility for his actions, blaming me for the way HE reacted. i understand it must be so hard on men to sit back and watch their wives/girllfriends turn into these hormonal monsters, but it takes a real man to bite his tounge and step up to the mark. Their there to help, not to hinder. brilliant adivce there!

By Courtney,   From Louisville
Thanks for the article(s) about fighting. My husband and I fight a lot, I hope he will read these articles and we can move past this. This morning he told me he"was stuck with me now, and wouldn't be a very good man if he left now." Should I brush that off or tell him if he's unhappy he can leave??

By ned,   From starsky
i have tried my hardest to stop arguing with my wife, its become impossible to communicate in any way. everything i do is wrong and everything i dont do is wrong, breathing is wrong, working is wrong, just everything a man does is wrong, and when i plain and simple am not in the wrong and have to stand there listening to her shout scream kick and slap me without an escape route do you honestly think im gonna stand there and not shout back, shes pregnant, that does not stop her from being human.. after listening to 8months of abuse and disrespect towards myself and her complaining about everything every 5 minutes i have no more sympathy for pregnant women. you women have all the help available under the sun, we have nothing. you have us and what we do is provide the very world in which you live, we deserve just as much help. you say we dont understand, we understand perfectly we listen to everyword spoken, we listen to every moan and groan, we listen to every single thing, its about time you started to listen to us.. we are men, we have emotions, we have feelings and they are just as strong and as powerful as yours. everything in pregnancy is 50/50 but we only get 1% of our share, so do us a favour, give us a break!!!

By chon,   From tampa f
my fiance needs to read this he doesnt understand his affect on our child

By Anne,   From Houston
I"m so glad I got a chance to read your article. I"m 4 months pregnant and my husband is really starting to irritate the hell out of me. It often times seems that hes the one pregnant! I"m finding myself angry too often these days. I will encourage him too read this article. Maybe it will shed some light on this situation and bring more peace in our lives. Thanks Alot!

 
 
 
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