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By Lily,
From Las Vegas
I think is the best advice to give a new dad is to listen to your instincts.
By Donna,
From Evansville
Love your wife.
By Buddy,
From Jefferson
Give your wife and the mother of your child all the love, support and help you can.
By Charlene,
From Spotsylvania
Do not pick up the baby every
time they cry.If it is fed and
dry,the baby is probaly ok.
They just want to be held
By Gus,
From El Paso
Listen and learn from them!
By Heather,
From Orlando
Taking care of a baby is lots of work, so don't fret about undone laundry or the like. Give a helping hand...and let the wife take a nap every now and again.
By Casey,
From Overland Park
Write down all the funny things your kids do/day because it will be so hard to remember that stuff later.
By julie,
From groton
don't blink. time goes by way too fast, so cherish every moment.
By amy,
From allentown
dont sweat the small stuff
By venus,
From Chino Hills
Go with you instincts!
By Susanne,
From Racine
Patience...you will need it!
By Julianne,
From Fairfield
Time. Give your child YOUR time. Your gaming, your tv, your sports, etc are NOTHING compared to this child and this child's NEED for your one on one time. Listen. Play. Everyday make sure your child knows you love them through the undivided time you give them. Make your child a priority OVER your other pursuits during your free time. Find ways to include them. On a death bed you will never hear a father say he wished he would have spent LESS time with his kids.
By Tammy,
From SF SD
Pray for your children.
By Robert,
From Cypress
Know who you are before trying to help them find out who they are, so you don't try to make them who they "should be"... then... patience.... patience... patience...
By Shania,
From Irving
You'll make mistakes, everyone does, but the important thing is to be there and to try your best.
By Talitha,
From Phoenix
Give your wife at least an hour or two a day of totally baby free time. It will make her happy and give you a chance to bond with your baby.
By Terri,
From Fort Atkinson
Spend time with your child! This will allow you to bond with your child and will give your spouse/partner a break as well.
By Jack,
From Warren
Recognize that nobody is perfect, but if you do the best you can, things willmprobably work out ok.
By Frances,
From Alford
to be patient with the children
By MIKE,
From ALIQUIPPA
BE SMART ENOUGH TO KNOW YOU DON'T KNOW EVERYTHING ABOUT BEING A GOOD DAD, AND DON'T BE AFRAID TO ASK FOR HELP
By Sheila,
From Kansas City
Have lots and lots of patience, its always gets better! And poop happens, be prepared!
By john,
From Utica
Be prepared for the expected and unexpected at all times.
By Tarah,
From Clarkston
Don't wait for your wife to ask for help, just offer it at any and all times.
By Jason,
From Punta Gorda
Thank You.
By teri,
From sebastian
Stick with 1 kid!
By Geoff,
From Columbus
Don't be afraid to show your emotions or to express yourself, even when you risk letting your guard down! Your kids will benefit greatly from your emotional honesty and openness, and they will be more likely to confide in you and turn to you for support.
By kathy,
From west rutland
give your child lots of hugs and kisses
By Kathleen,
From Zanesville
Have lots of patience and help buy spending quality time with your child.
By Deb,
From Michigan
Talk to your baby. They may not understand everything you say, but they love the sound of your voice.
By Samantha,
From Whittier
try not to freak out, you'll do plenty of that when they're teenagers!
By vanessa,
From NY
Help your mate! You got into your situation together so you should see your way through it together. She will love you more than ever!
By kathleen,
From Stevenson Ranch
Just relax. Have fun with your new baby. Give him/her lots of love.
By Julie,
From Ocala
Spend lots of time with your children!
By Leigh,
From Lexington
BE the example you want for your child.
By Angie,
From Lowell
Always try to be your child's #1 Fan!
By william,
From southgate
always be there for them
By Martha,
From Boise
Have patience
By Tamara,
From Belmont
Always remember that if things don't work out with your spouse, your children are still your children and you need to continue to be a part of thier life.
By Barbara,
From Virginia Beach
Get involved with the day to day care of your baby, even if the mom acts like you're not doing it right. Relax and don't forget to compliment your baby's mom on how she's doing.
By Debbie,
From Texas
Do your share! Don't leave everything up to your wife
By Jill,
From Hendersonville
Time and Patience are two of the most important things that you can give to your child.
Thank you so much for offering this wonderful giveaway.
By deidra,
From garrett
try not to sweat the small stuff, time passes so quickly, enjoy them when they're small because they're babies only once!!
By Janet,
From Fort Lee
Make sure that you make time for your wife and ask her how she feels, and most importantly listen.
By Debra,
From Niskayuna
Let you wife sleep in whenever possible! Thanks for the great giveaway.
By Chrysa,
From Cambridge
Learn patience and RELAX!
By Aletha,
From Woodbine
My hubby says, "don't get so caught up in the kid that you forget about your wife." I almost fell off my chair when he said this. Thanks for the giveaway.
By christopher,
From elk grove
enjoy every minute
By patrick,
From mattapoisett
Don't get frustrated and enjoy
By Aldo,
From Sanford
Don't do Drugs.
By Kim,
From Freedom
Listen to what your kids have to say, especially when they're young. They will feel special.
By Ed,
From Skokie
Listen and love!
By Alan,
From Anderson
Put the child up for adoption.
By Samantha,
From Rochester
The best advice would be to split up diaper duties to relieve stress from the mom.
By Cheryl,
From Show Low
Remember that your time spent with your child is the best gift you can ever give him.
By Bob,
From Conneaut Lake
Have patience and don't just hear.....listen.
By Erma,
From Washington Court House
Be patient and get lots of sleep. Thanks for the chance to win.
By Gary,
From Attica
You have a family now, so always be true to yourself and especially to your wife....
By greg,
From vancouver
Steal time sleep and kisses when you can
By Tammy,
From Thornton
Jealousy is normal, even ok... dont worry, your still loved!
Dont be afraid to get grandma to babysit and get some ALONE time!
By Don,
From Blue Springs
Advice: Enjoy it all...they grow very fast. Get on the floor and play..just let them always know that they can count on dad.
By Geri,
From Thief River Falls
Remember that they are only young once...so don't let that time slip away...they grow up faster then you think...
By Charlene,
From Wiggins
Have patience, & most of all listen to them.
By David,
From Loxahatchee
Remember to get your rest! All the comments go to mom and we sometimes feel left out. Don't let this bother you. Just grin and feel great. But, get your rest so that you can help when needed. Enjoy them now because they grow up so fast. I have 4!!
By Vicki,
From Fargo
Be patient, relax and enjoy your children they do grow up so fast
By Tiffany,
From Alabama
Don't sweat the small stuff and enjoy every minute!
By Jerry,
From Middleton
Best advice for a new dad?
Mom is tired, give her time. Remember you will be with them for years, some things can wait and in those passing years she will remember your patience and thank you for it.
By Kelly,
From Camano Island
Don't try to be super dad
Thanks
By Lucy,
From Fond du lac
Love the mom . Love begets love.
By Cheryl,
From Show Low
Probably to remember that time spent with a child is invaluable. Don't get all wrapped up in your career.
By Cheryl,
From Show Low
Probably to remember that time spent with a child is invaluable. Don't get all wrapped up in your career.
By Cheryl,
From Show Low
Probably to remember that time spent with a child is invaluable. Don't get all wrapped up in your career.
By Jennifer,
From Thayer
Be patient
By Carol,
From Leonardtown
give the new mom a break and start bonding with your new child as early as possible
By Theresa,
From West haven
roll with the punches
By Kaycee,
From Tallahassee
Little boys can play with dolls too. :)
By Jacob,
From Helena
Patience. You are going to screw up sometimes. Work through it. It will be ok
By Brenda,
From Sabina
Be patient and listen, best years of your life, thanks for the giveaway
By Jodene,
From South River
Enjoy them, before you know it they will be talking back!
By Sandy,
From Hot Springs
Lots of one-on-one right from the start!
By Jay,
From Chicago
Remain calm!
By bob,
From covington
Show your emotions and teach your child it's healthy to do the same.
By Steve,
From Hailey
Spend quality one on one time with each of your children.
By Delilah,
From Harvest
The best advice I have for a new dad....is to be involved in your child's life!
By Steve,
From Hailey
Do not be afraid to be a part of your childs life.
By Catherine,
From cartersville
the best advice is that you don't have to be perfect but you do have to be there.
By Sharon,
From Norwood MA
treasure your wife
By michelle,
From cincinnati
I'd advise patience with your kids and ejoy every day wih them they grow up so fast. thanks
By Sherri,
From Pinetown
My best advice to new dads is to be involved. While the mom may carry the baby in her body, the dad should start carrying it in his heart from the start.
By John,
From albany
pick me ~ would love to win.
By Ken,
From Keyport NJ
You've gained a new friend and endowment. Please accept my entry. Thank you.
By Michael,
From Chicago
When making any decision about your life always think about what's best for your child. It's amazing what seemingly unrelated decisions will impact the child's life. Always keep the child's best interests in mind.
By Kari,
From Wolcott
take extra special care of YOUR WIFE. She'll need it :)
By Sonya,
From Dexter
best think a dad can do is just be there when hes needed. Always there to lend a hand or ear.
By donna,
From sharpsville
one day at a time and take what it gives you
By Dave,
From Buffalo
Savor every moment.
By Denyse,
From Seminole
Help your wife out and in the same time, become a hands on part of your child's life!
By Jon,
From Magnolia
spend as much time as possible with them
By Meredith,
From Roswell
Do half of the work in caring for the child. You will be happy you did.
By kelly,
From tampa
There is no such thing as a perfect dad, just the best dad that you can be. Enjoy every minute!
By Mike,
From Holiday
i want to win
By Jim,
From Nashua
Have fun! Take it easy and enjoy the new addition!
By Jason,
From Elko
Lay off the booze when you are with the kids
By Victor,
From Elgin
When you are watching your child it is not considered "babysitting." Also give your wife atleast a half hour break everyday... she deserves it and will reward you for it...
By Cathie,
From Pueblo
I agree with everything Randall said but would add Be prepaired to say no to them sometimes, even though you know , for a bit at least, they will hate you for it
By leloni,
From Madison
Listen!!
By Sarah,
From Hanover
spend as much time with your child as you can, it's the best gift you could give them!
By Rick,
From Melbourne
Don't worry, in a couple years it'll get a little bit easier wait for 5th yr they say some funny things ;D
By Melissa,
From Powder Springs
Don't be afraid to hold the baby and your wife. They both need it!
By Kirsten,
From Puyallup
Jump right in and don't be offended if your wife doesn't think you dressed your child right or did this differently. That happens all the time. Change the diapers, dress them, feed them, bond with them. You are as important as mommy is.
By teresa,
From canmer
to be patient with the children and mostly yourself
By teresa,
From canmer
to be patient with the children and mostly yourself
By Angel,
From Chico
Be understanding and lend a helping hand even though you are not sure how to do it.
By Randall,
From Moore
Show them they are the most important thing on earth. Show your child how much you love them daily. Strongly rule with a gentle hand. Always take time out to recognize the smallest accomplishment. Kiss your kids and hug them often. Tell your kids you are sorry if you make a mistake, let them know you are not perfect, but you are trying your best. Listen to what they have to say, sometimes they have an untainted outlook on things, you might learn something from them. Plan on playing hookie from other obligations on occassion and make the day all about your child. Let it be their special day. Don't wait for a special occassion for a gift, just do it out of the blue, because they exist and they are yours. Read to your kids and teach them to budget and save. So emotion in front of your kids, I never knew men were allowed to cry. This isn't weakness it is human. Brag on your kids, they are the legacy you will leave behind, show them how proud you are. Teach them right from wrong but on try to rule them, let them make some of their own decissions, when it comes down to the wire most will follow their heart and choose the right path. Don't show disappointment, quickest way to break a spirit. Never lie to your kids, it is next to impossible to rebuild lost trust.
By Beverley,
From Shelby
Look your child in the eyes, and listen, really listen.
By MA,
From Flagler Beach
Relax and enjoy!
By JAMES,
From IOWA CITY
DON'T START AN AFFAIR WITH THE BABYSITTER:)
By susan,
From belfast
help not only during the day but at night- share the load
By Christina,
From Fremont
My best advice for a new dad is to put your wife and children first.
By Carla,
From Palmdale
Spend every moment with your child work can't be first!
Carla
cpullum(at)yahoo(dot)com
By Kathy,
From Hailey
Take time to get to know your new tax deduction.
By Starr,
From Midvale
hope to win
By Starr,
From Midvale
hope to win
By James,
From Scottsdale
LISTEN!
By ron,
From rutland
do you swing?
By Carol,
From Chelsea
Not only learn to get by on little sleep, but remember that mom has probably had even less than you!
By russell,
From spartanburg
Learn to take it easy. Don't sweat the small stuff.
By Sandy,
From Eldorado
Be patient. Try to help mom as much as possible and be involved. Spend qaulity alone time with your family and really get to know them and all their quirks so you aren't having to rely on others to tell you what is needed.
By Vicky,
From trussville
be patient.
By Angela,
From Lakeport
Just be involved in raising the child and help out as much as you can.
By Susan,
From Olathe
Give your wife some alone time.
By Karen,
From Bloomington
Get involved!
By veronica,
From kingman
Have fun. don't be afraid.
By Barbara,
From Furlong
support your wife.Don't be jealous. give that baby lots of kisses.
By Zoly,
From Blasdell
Spend time at home with your family and get to know them. You will be with them a lot longer than your buddies and acquaintances.
By Tesa,
From Lott
Wash the dishes and do the laundry unexpectedly. It makes a wonderful gift!
By Robert,
From Wappingers Falls
Enjoy every minute, because they grow up very fast.
By Andrew,
From reminderville
Enjoy it, it goes by fast.
By Margaret,
From Randolph
To have patience and remember the baby won't break. Help out the new mom as much as possible too.
By Cynthia,
From OH
Starting from day one, reserve a portion of your day to spend exclusively with your child.
By PATRIC,
From port st lucie
Learn how to change diapers. And change them once in a while. Every day would be good.
By MICHAEL,
From FLORIDA
Get your wife out of the house. Take her to dinner and a movie that she wants to see.
By JAMES,
From chicago
LEARN TO GET BY ON VERY LITTLE SLEEP
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