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The Reality of Pregnancy: A Week-by-Week Guide to Crazy Ladies and Nursing Bras

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Wondering what to expect during your partner’s pregnancy? It’s a good idea to be realistic and expect the worst – then you may be pleasantly surprised. Just for the record, only about 10% of women experience happy, blissful pregnancies. The rest of us experience what I like to call the “year I went crazy.”

The beginning…
When a woman finds out she’s pregnant, she’s usually about 4 – 6 weeks along. (which in medical time is actually only 2-4 weeks.) So, as you can imagine, the hormones are just starting to brew. You might notice a little change; she may be a bit more emotional, her breasts may instantly perk up, and she may look at you like you’re an Adonis who fertilized her womb.

What most of you don’t know, is that this is the calm before the storm.

6-12 Weeks
This is the time when, if you’re going to get morning sickness, it’s going to start happening now and last until you hit the 12 – 14 week mark. If you’re not okay with your lady throwing up, don’t go near the bathroom. And it usually doesn’t happen in the morning. It could be noon, it could be the middle of the night, or it could be all day. Her breasts will be so sore that she’ll take a swing at you if you even look at them. She may cry during breakfast. Or on the phone. Or while she’s peeing. This is normal.

12 – 20 Weeks
This is the trickiest time in the pregnancy due to the start of the weight gain. Just a heads up for you guys; don’t comment on it. When she asks, “Do I look pregnant, or just fat…?” you can do one of two things:
  1. Say “Pardon? I didn’t hear you because I was too busy cleaning the bathroom for you. I know how tired you’ve been.”
  2. Pretend to pass out and just avoid the situation entirely.
The mother-to-be of your child may also be very tired right now. Let her sleep as much as possible to avoid unnecessary conflict. The morning sickness should be over now and give way to the whole new enemy: constipation. There is nothing you can do to help with this problem except to nod sympathetically if she brings it to your attention, and pretend not to cringe when you see stool softeners in the medicine cabinet.

20 – 28 Weeks
Now you will start to see your partner blossoming into a beautiful, life-giving entity. For those of you that are lucky, this is when some pregnant women get a little “randy” and suggest passionate sessions of sex. For those of you with a different type of extremely hormonal partner (remember, she can’t help it) this is when she will swear off sex for the rest of the pregnancy, if she hasn’t already. Also, she may take on an odd smell – this is caused by extreme flatulence – a common side effect of pregnancy. Also beware of: overheating, swelling of extremities and weird ailments (skin rashes, hemorrhoids, etc.)

This may also be the time to get the baby’s nursery in order. Be prepared for her to shop… A LOT. If this is your first, she may break the bank at baby boutiques buying everything from burp pads and potty seats to headbands. (Baby girls will cause a significantly bigger shopping spree.)

28-38 Weeks
If your wife is going to get bitchy, it’s going to happen now. There are varying degrees of bitchiness. She could range anywhere from Disney-princess to Linda Blair (think The Exorcist.) Women will shake their heads and disagree, but I for one, didn’t allow my husband to chew inside the house. Yes, chew. It’s not uncommon either. Here are a few things that may or may not set her off like an atomic bomb:
  1. Breathing on her, or breathing in general.
  2. Chewing next to her or chewing in general.
  3. Snoring.
  4. Drinking alcohol or general merriment with “the boys”.
  5. Mentioning there’s a funny smell from her (she probably farted – keep it to yourself.)
  6. Your suddenly stronger-than-usual odor.
  7. Your hygiene habits – do not clip your toenails around her.
  8. Any sudden noises (like coughing.)
  9. Any failure to understand what she’s going through (dude, just pretend.)
  10. The mere mention of sex.

38 – 42 Weeks (I really hope for your sake it’s 40 weeks)
You’re in the homestretch! You’ve both made it to the end of a long, hard journey… but not quite. This is the nesting period, when your lovely will clean out the whole pad, scrubbing like she’s Cinderella and working for food. Don’t get in her way – even to help. She won’t notice anyway, and she’ll just clean it again. You are to offer your heavy-lifting services only.

Your wife will look as big as she’s going to get now. Her breasts will be massive and need to be poured into a nursing bra 2-3 sizes bigger than normal. Her belly will resemble a massive beach ball and her feet may be so swollen she has to have a foot rub twice a day (get on it!)

Quick Tips to get you through 40-ish weeks of joy/scariness:
  • Go to the appointments with her.
  • Don’t miss the ultrasound!
  • Give her foot rubs every day.
  • Pretend to be excited about everything.
  • Be less annoying in general.
Good luck and God Speed.

Lilly Gordon is a freelance web publisher and author and enjoys writing on a variety of topics. She is a wife and mother of two and specializes in babies, burp pads and diaper changing.
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By Baylee,   From Lineville
Thank you for this. I just found out I'm preggers, I am currently five weeks. My husband and I have read over this article multiple times and find it very entertaining and very educational (especially for him). Thanks.

By Taylor,   From Tacoma
This was absolutely hilarious! I find nothing offensive about this, at 13 weeks. The farting and constipation is on par, along with the crying while peeing. The only thing that I disagree with is that I'll probably make the daddy clean the house just as much as I will. :] "I've done the majority of the work the last 40 weeks, you can clean the houes!"

By Crystal,   From Burson
I for one was not offended by this article whatsoever, and was greatly entertained. I don't think this should hurt anyone's feelings; it is widely known that pregnant women have these ailments (and that they are "bitchy") and if men are a tad bit squeamish, to bad for them. But yes, they are still allowed to reproduce.

By Kyle,   From Kennewick
Leslie, from what I have been taught by reading this article, you appear to be in the 28 - 38 week range of your pregnancy. Hope everything goes well for you.

By Leslie,   From Guelph
I couldn't believe it when I got to 28-38 weeks and realized that this article was written by a woman! What a disrespectful portrayal of femininity. Calling the habits of any woman bitchy is uncalled for and seriously offends me- and I'm not even pregnant! Maybe if these "dudes" aren't okay with their lady throwing up, and cringe when they see stool softener, they should not be having children... not to mention that women deal with much worse behavioral issues from men ALL THE TIME.

By Nessa,   From Illinois [somewhere]
I haven't laughed this hard to myself in a LONG while. I'm currently 25 weeks along and this is (so far) to a "T" of how I've been acting. Looking forward to the next grouping where I become an even bigger biotch. hahaha. I'm sure that the BF is just waiting for that phase to pass. Thanks for the laughs :)

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