
Welcome to another episode of Great Dad Talks Resilience with guest Chris Malgieri, a fitness and mindset coaching expert. Whether you’re striving to enhance your personal toughness or setting a positive example for your children, this conversation is packed with practical advice and inspiring stories you won’t want to miss.
In this episode, you will be able to:
- Discover how mindset and physical fitness training intersect for holistic well-being.
- Learn the power of consistent, incremental steps for sustainable improvement.
- Get practical tips on ditching the snooze button to boost daily productivity.
- Understand resilience as persistence and commitment, not just toughness.
- Explore time-efficient strategies like “micro workouts” to stay fit and resilient, even with a busy schedule.
Hey there, Paul Banas from GreatDad.com here, back with another enlightening episode recap from my podcast, Great Dad Talks. This week’s episode features Chris Malgieri, a seasoned fitness and mindset coach who brings a wealth of knowledge about the intersection of physical fitness and mental resilience. As fathers, building resilience is crucial not only for ourselves but also to model it for our kids. Let’s dive into the valuable insights Chris shared during our conversation.
The Intersection of Fitness and Mindset
One of the most striking points Chris made was about the natural connection between physical and mental well-being. He emphasized that our body and mind are not separate entities but work together cohesively. Chris stated:
“You are one person in one body. Your mind is not separate from your workout, your physicality.”
This resonates deeply, especially as we navigate the journey of fatherhood with its myriad of challenges and responsibilities. Chris highlighted that even small, consistent changes can lead to significant improvements in both mental and physical health.
The Power of Small Steps and Daily Habits
Chris is a strong advocate for incremental progress over attempting drastic changes. He explained:
“What we wanna look at is sustainable changes that go in the direction of what we wanna develop as.”
Here are some key pieces of advice Chris offered:
- Start small: Commit to daily small steps, such as walking an extra few blocks or adding a couple more push-ups each week.
- Consistency is key: Focus on daily habituations – even minor ones can lead to concrete changes in a short period.
- Mindful practices: Spend a few minutes daily in meditation or breath work to support mental resilience.
Redefining Resilience
When talking about resilience, Chris made an important distinction. He shared that resilience is not necessarily about toughness, but about persistence and commitment. He said:
“Resilience is persistence. It’s the ability to keep doing the good, wholesome developmental tasks every day.”
Chris explained that resilience is about being committed to growing, nurturing oneself and one’s family, and taking consistent action even when it’s challenging.
Practical Steps to Build Resilience
It’s easy to get overwhelmed by the idea of making major life changes, but Chris showed us how to break it down into manageable steps:
Physical Fitness:
- Start with walking: As per Chris, walking is the “primary mover for sustained exercise.”
- Micro workouts: Incorporate short, intense sessions – they add up! Chris mentioned,
- “Micro workouts are phenomenal. 3 minutes, 5 minutes… aggregate them, and you’ve got an hour of working out without even noticing.”
Hydration and Mindfulness:
- Stay hydrated: Changing your hydration habits can significantly affect your brain function and overall well-being.
- Daily mindfulness: Spend 3 minutes just being, which can include prayer or meditation. This practice helps to center and calm the mind amidst the daily hustle.
Handling Setbacks and Staying Motivated
Finally, Chris addressed a common issue – what to do when life gets in the way and disrupts our routine. He advised:
- Analyze why: Determine whether the disruption was within your control or a result of laziness.
- Micro workouts: Integrate them into your day if you miss a full workout.
- Forgive yourself and move on: Reflect on what happened, learn from it, and don’t dwell on the missed opportunity.
Chris provided a valuable perspective on self-compassion, reminding us to acknowledge both our wins and our losses, always aiming to learn and improve.
Conclusion
Our conversation with Chris Malgieri was filled with practical tips and deep insights into the importance of resilience for dads. His balanced approach emphasizes small daily steps, mindfulness, and the interconnectedness of physical and mental health. By integrating these practices, we can not only improve our own well-being but also set a positive example for our children.
Chris Malgieri
Fitness and mindset coach
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