Why is it essential for fathers to prioritize their children and be emotionally present? In what ways can being a present father influence a child’s behavior and achievements?
Join me and guest Cory Rankin as we delve into the world of work-life balance, the impact of being a present father, and how to create a structure that allows for financial success while nurturing strong family connections.
In this episode, you will learn:
- How to prioritize family over business and be a present father.
- The impact of being an intentional and present father on children’s behavior and achievements.
- The importance of building trust and connection early with children.
- Strategies for work-life balance as an entrepreneur.
- How to elevate fathers and provide support to children in need.
Title: Balancing Entrepreneurship and Fatherhood with Cory Rankin
Introduction:
Hey there, fellow dads! Paul here, host of Great Dad Talks, back with another exciting episode filled with insightful conversations and valuable advice on being the best dad we can be. In this week’s episode, I had the pleasure of speaking with the incredible Cory Rankin, a devoted father with a wealth of experience in the world of entrepreneurship and foster parenting.
Cory and his wife have been working with married entrepreneurs for the past four years, while simultaneously being foster parents for over a decade. We delved into the importance of being present, intentional, and connected as fathers, and the tremendous impact it has on our children’s lives.
The Journey to Prioritizing Family:
Cory shared his personal journey of growth, acknowledging that there were times when he wasn’t the dad his children desired due to his focus on studies or business. However, he recognized the need to restructure his priorities and place his family at the forefront. He revealed, “My priority list now is god, my family, and everything else comes second.”
Finding Balance as an Entrepreneur:
As fathers, we all face the challenge of balancing our family responsibilities with our professional aspirations. Cory emphasized the need for intentional planning when starting a business, ensuring that the foundation of our ventures aligns with our desire to be present and active in our children’s lives. Here are some key takeaways to achieve a work-life balance as an entrepreneur:
- Create a plan and stick to it; manage your time wisely.
- Learn to say no to obligations that don’t align with your priorities.
- Prioritize your family on your calendar, blocking off dedicated time for your children.
- Embrace structure and use reminders to help you stay present in your children’s lives.
The Impact of Being Present:
Cory shared heartfelt stories about the positive impact of being present in his children’s lives. From seeing his children sell books and witnessing his oldest son gain confidence through sports coaching, he highlighted how his active involvement nurtured their behavior and achievements. He said, “Kids value their father’s presence and will say that he is the best when he shows up.”
Seize the Present Opportunities:
We often find ourselves caught up in the “one day” mentality, waiting for the perfect moment to be present with our children. Cory challenged this mindset, urging us to find opportunities in the present to connect with our kids. He illustrated the significance of small moments of connection, like playing blocks with his son with autism. These seemingly simple interactions can have a profound impact on our relationships.
Supporting Our Children’s Well-being:
Cory touched upon the rising rates of mental health issues in youth and the role fathers play in minimizing these risks. He emphasized the importance of building trust early on and maintaining open communication with our children. These efforts not only enhance their well-being but also create a strong foundation for support during challenging times.
Taking Action:
Cory’s mission is to elevate as many dads as possible, ensuring that our children have the support they need. He runs a website called dadsunleash.com and organizes a monthly challenge for entrepreneurs focused on achieving work-life balance. This challenge incorporates elements of being an entrepreneur throughout the days and provides essential tools to become more present and connected fathers.
Key Advice Recap:
- Create a plan and stick to it; manage your time wisely.
- Learn to say no to obligations that don’t align with your priorities.
- Prioritize your family on your calendar, blocking off dedicated time for your children.
- Embrace structure and use reminders to help you stay present in your children’s lives.
- Seize the present opportunities to connect with your kids.
- Build trust, maintain open communication, and support your children’s well-being.
- Visit dadsunleash.com/present for guidance on prioritizing and understanding your role as a parent.
Conclusion:
As dads, our presence and involvement matter. It’s not about being perfect; it’s about showing up, being available, and fulfilling our promises. Let’s embrace being intentional, present, and connected fathers, weaving the threads of love and support into the tapestry of our children’s lives.
About Cory Rankin
Entrepreneur
Cory Rankin is a devoted father and entrepreneur who has been married for 15 years and has 5 children. Over the past 10 years, he and his wife have also been foster parents to 30 children. Cory is the founder of Dads Unleashed, a website and community dedicated to helping fathers prioritize their families while navigating the demands of entrepreneurship. With his experience and passion for being a present and intentional dad, Cory is an advocate for creating a healthy work-life balance and is committed to empowering other fathers to do the same.
Follow Cory on his socials:
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