You may be in an awkward stage where things are less than ideal after having kids, but that’s no time to indulge in what you think are idle fantasies, say researchers at McGill University, according to a story in Mens Health magazine. Thinking about the after effects of cheating, rather than the cheating itself, can help you avoid temptation they say, based on a study of of men who looked at pictures of attractive women versus a control group who studied academic problems. By focusing on what you can do to protect your relationship, you’re more likely to avoid temptation than letting your imagination go wild.
Dad sex tip – Focus on her rather than your fantasies

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In this episode, Sean Dawson of Raising Men shares what he’s learned from interviewing many guests about masculinity, transmitting values, and raising kids with intention—especially with a son who has big energy in a culture that often tries to suppress boyhood. We explore the current “crisis of masculinity,” why it’s not a zero-sum game for boys and girls, and Sean’s framework of courage, character, and purpose. Sean reframes modern protection as creating emotional safety, compares performative strength to real strength, and explains how planning matters while staying flexible. He also shares how a friend’s tragic loss made him more intentional with his own son, and offers two core takeaways: give yourself grace and lead by modeling the man you want your kids to become.
Whether you’re a new dad or a seasoned father, you’ll find relatable stories, actionable tips, and plenty of wisdom in this conversation.
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