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How to Cope with First-Born Jealousy – Read on If this is not your First Baby

September 21, 2007 by GreatDad Writers 2 Comments

With the new baby taking up most of your time and attention, it is but natural that your first-born will be jealous. It’s up to you to manage this situation. While ultimately it is most important to protect your new baby, you need to ensure that your older child does not feel neglected.

Here are tips on how to cope with a jealous older sibling:

  • Teach your older child to interact with the baby in the proper way. You can do this by explaining to your child that the baby is delicate at this age and requires careful handling.
  • Involve your older child in caring for the new baby. For instance, you can ask your child to rock the baby’s cradle gently or help to dress the baby.
  • Be lavish with your praise every time you observe the older child behaving gently with the baby.
  • Avoid neglecting the older child. Try to continue to do the things you did with your older child before the baby was born.
  • Avoid drawing comparisons between your child and the baby. Your older child could interpret this as criticism.
  • If your child verbally expresses resentment towards the baby, do not be defensive about the baby. Respond gently and reassuringly.
  • Unless you are confident that the older sibling will not harm the baby, never leave your children alone together.

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  1. Victor says

    November 30, -0001 at 12:00 am

    Thanks – these are very useful tips. Another tip is: Don’t use exclusive endearing terms with the baby. For example, don’t say, “You are my chweetest baby.”

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  2. Gramma says

    November 30, -0001 at 12:00 am

    5 yr old grand daughter has extreme anger problems developing over last 2 – 3 months. Her sister is 5 months old. She will destroy things, throw things, showing signs of wanting to harm baby and her cat. Steals, gets up in middle of night and raid fridge and hide food, there was even evidence that she unlocked the doors at night when mom and dad sleeping and took something out of car. Major temper tantrums. Mommie and Daddy are at whits end.

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