Biting and hitting are obviously signs of aggression; but they
are also signs of frustration. Words don’t come easily for toddlers below 2 years, and hitting may
sometimes seem to be the only way they can express their frustrations. Parents should understand
such behavior as a form of ‘communication’ and try to understand what is really going on in their
children’s lives.
Here are some suggestions to help control your kids’
behavior:
- Stay Calm: Don’t respond with yelling and hitting your children – you will
only exacerbate the situation. - Avoid lectures: Toddlers are not capable of cognitively
understanding the problem of hitting others. Firmly say “No bite!” - Show them it hurts:
Let your children know that it feels real bad when they act aggressively - Teach them
control: Show them alternative ways of dealing with their feelings – like talking them out or
counting to ten before they break out - Solve the problem: Separate the victim of
biting/hitting from the situation. Administer proper first aid if required (see below). Don’t ask
for explanations from the aggressor - Be realistic and appreciative: Show faith in your
children’s natural goodness and their ability to change for the better
A short guide to treating Human Bites:
- Clean the
hurt area with soap and water Cover the area immediately with a sterile bandage - If the
child’s skin is broken, it is time to visit the doctor
Disclaimer: The above information is commonsense reflection drawn
from general experience. If you are looking for expert medical advice, please consult your
doctor.
